Education
At first glance, education may appear simple and straightforward; however, in an era increasingly intertwined with technology, educators must acquire new methods that are open-minded and in tune with contemporary advancements, all while preserving the essence and content of the educational message. The abundance of approaches proposed by specialists often leaves it to parents to decide which methods best suit their children, based on their personalities and behaviors.
Contemporary Educational Methods
There are numerous modern educational techniques to consider, including:
- Dialogue Technique: Dedicate time to sit with your child, away from screens, and teach them the art of conversation. Encourage them to express their opinions clearly and respectfully. By embodying positive values, you set an example that will help instill those concepts within your children.
- Balance Technique: Strive to balance your child’s psychological, physical, and intellectual needs without excess or deficiency. Support them in finding equilibrium between their desires, such as enjoying delicious food and drinks, acquiring and reading children’s books, while also guiding them on the importance of dental care and maintaining clean clothing.
- Motivation Technique: Bolster your child’s self-confidence, a key factor in their adaptability to various challenges and situations. Encourage them to speak in front of adults, and remember to reward them with small gifts for displaying positive behavior, irrespective of your circumstances.
The Principle of Reward and Punishment
Resorting to violence, including yelling, cursing, threats, or physical punishment, is merely a temporary escape from the issues facing both the child and the parents. Such reactions can leave lasting psychological scars on the child, potentially leading to isolation, fear of expressing opinions, and a sense of negativity about themselves. Children often struggle to differentiate between their inappropriate behaviors needing correction and their identity, leading to a negative self-perception rather than a focus on improving those behaviors. On the other hand, rewards must also be regulated to retain their value in the eyes of the child.
Alternatives to Punishment
- Accept your child as they are, with both their strengths and weaknesses, to prevent repeated emotional reactions to the same mistakes.
- Ignore minor infractions in the moment and revisit the topic later, allowing time for anger to settle.
- Implement a chart system, for instance, to monitor sleep habits, noise levels, or keeping their playroom organized, and observe the child’s behavioral adjustments over a week, month, or year.
- Consider depriving your child of certain valued items or activities, ensuring they are clearly informed about this consequence beforehand.